…and
very slow to anger. (James 1:19)
Anger is a symptom, not a disease. You may
have argued as Jonah (“I do well to be angry.” (Jonah 4:9)), as you read that
statement. But, the “righteous anger” you wish to claim from a human
perspective is challenged by the next verse, “For the wrath of man worketh not
the righteousness of God (James 1:20).” It’s as if he read your mind, right?
What is your alternative to anger?
Identifying the disease is critical to this answer. The disease of
self-centeredness is often behind the anger people feel. If you resolve that
you will simply accept people unconditionally, you will slow the speed of your
anger in a measurable way. Taking time to learn who a person is, why they are
who they are, and the experiences and feelings which have formed their beliefs
and attitudes is the way to that acceptance. As you build relationships this
way, you will find yourself consumed by concern for them and their welfare. It
is difficult to respond in anger when your goal is for the person to find God’s
love and then pursue His perfect will for their life. Such concern centers you
on mutual need rather than differences and disagreements.
Accept your people as they are, even when
they differ from you. Love them enough to seek their best as a higher priority
than your own. But, begin where they are.
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